10 DAYS TUMMY TUCK POSTOP

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Lord Have Mercy!!! Let me tell yall. Coming from a person who does not take any medicine. All I can say is these meds had me Moody AF!!! Emotionally, I was all over the place. Fortunately, that's the bad news, because the good news was I never experienced any pain.

However... last night... I decided I wanted to stop taking the meds and return back to my old mental self. With my daughter by my side, we laid in my bed, I was very uncomfortable. I would rate my pain at around a 6. This is the most pain I have been in since the surgery. However, I was determined to tough it out.  And I made it!!!!

Today, I have not taken any medicine at all and I have not been in any pain. I'm still taking it easy. Not doing too much. But, I am PRAYING TO GOD that my doctor remove my drains on Monday.

My last follow up, on Wednesday, the doctor said I was still having too much output in the drain. And my reaction was to storm out of the office and yell at them.....

"I AM NOT HAPPY!!!!! I AM GIVING YA'LL FIVE SAD FACE EMOJI'S AND 5 RED FACE MAD FACE EMOJI'S!!!!"😡😡😡😡😡😔😔😔😔😔

The whole staff looked puzzled and one nurse responded, "Five?"

"YES!!!!!! Five!!!!!!" I yelled as i left out of the office.

Since that visit, I just have been agitated with everyone. Not really my kids, because they really get on my nerves. But they have not been agitating me. Which is strange to me. I been really frustrated with my sister and my husband. My mom is on the list too, but I can't really be mad at her for too long.

What I would like ya'll to know is that meds have side effects. I've heard of people getting depressed or getting addicted to them. So just know that after the procedure, the medication will have some effects on you mentally eventhough it eliminates your pain.

Again... I would like to thank all the good people in my circle who knew I was agitated and continued to call, text, and message me anyway. I am forever grateful for them. Here are a few of my circle that’s been in my inbox.... I heart them for their concern for me! 

 

 

Many people have asked alot of questions about my procedure and so let me address that real quickly.

1. Why did you pick your surgeon????  I love Dr. Rednam she was one of the few docs in Houston who offered the drainless tummy tuck. Eventhough, I was not a candidate for that procedure, I moved forward with allowing her to perform my surgery.

2. What are you eating Post Op? Yes. I had a little thanksgiving food. My cousin Bennie had a turkey soooooooooo good I couldve hurt myself eating it. Oh.... and they had potatoe salad. At my cousin Chirlanda's I had a little dressing and greens. Honestly, I did not eat toooooo much. Not nearly as much as I normally would have ate.

But typically everyday since the surgery, all I've been craving is WATERMELON & soup (Wonton Soup) I don't know why. Then, I also have a granola bar and a green tea.

Granola Bar

Green Tea

3. Have you lost any weight? The surgeon removed about 4 lbs of skin and fat, but I got on the scale this morning (the day after thanksgiving and I had lost 6lbs.) I don't know whats that about since I haven't been moving much. Maybe because I have not been eating a lot. I really don't know 

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TUMMY TUCK EXPERIENCE/ADVICE

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After years of wanting a tummy tuck,11/15/17, I went and had it done. Before I tell you about my surgery let me first list to you the reasons why I wanted this done:



1. In 2005, I had twins which left an unflattering pouch of extra skin....

2. In addition to that, I used to be 200 lbs, but threw diet and exercise I lost a good 40 lbs.

3. For years, I have been insecure and uncomfortable about my stomach. No matter how much I worked out or ate right, I just could not get rid of the pouch!

BEFORE WEIGHT LOSS

BEFORE WEIGHT LOSS

Mind you.... I don't have too many pics at my heaviest because I just refused to take pictures.

AFTER WEIGHT LOSS

AFTER WEIGHT LOSS

Now... that that's out of the way. Let me share with you that I am married and for the longest my husband refused to allow me to have the surgery. I felt it was very sweet that he felt it was nothing wrong with my body and I did not need to have anything done. Also, I do respect how my husband feels about things but I wanted this for myself so badly. I was very persistent until he gave in. Also, my children are older and self sufficient so I knew now would be a good time do this. Lastly, I felt this was the opportune time to have this done because my oldest boys had not went off to college yet and financially we were in a really good place. I had paid off my truck and debts, and I did not know what expenses I would occur once the boys got ready to go off to college.

Enough of that..... I knew many people who had the surgery done with successful results, but I researched my doctor on REALSELF.COM/DR.REDNAM..  I was most interested in a surgeon who could perform a drain less tummy tuck and she was one of the few in the Houston area who offered that service. Her reviews were amazing and on top of that she was aesthetically beautiful.  She looked like she really took care of herself, her accolades were amazing, and I felt very comfy she would take good care of me as well. Upon my consultation with her, I felt as if we were home girls. Dr.Rednam is very down to earth and personable. I shared with her that I had lost 40lbs, but had gained 8 lbs back. Her response to me transferred from a cosmetic surgeon to a therapist. All she said to me was that I should really be proud of myself for losing that much weight with diet and exercise. It was just the way she said it that made me feel a whole lot better about myself,

Day of surgery.... I chose to have it done at her surgical center. Very beautiful and welcoming facility.

 

They have a nurse there (who was not my nurse) but she came around and hugged everyone. Even though the entire staff was friendly, the hug from the nurse seemed to ease my anxiety a great deal and I really don't think she knows how much that meant to me.

Here is a pic 24 hours after the surgery... minimal swelling... .. 

All of the black markings is from Dr. Rednam drawing all over me prior to the surgery.

Here is a pic 5 days post OP.... a lot of swelling and bloating because I have not been able to have a bowel movement...

I did have a bowel movement last night. Hallelujah! But, I went to have a follow up with my doctor and I was sad because they refused to removed the drain until Monday......

Ultimately, I am very happy with my results. My stomach looks amazing. I still have stretch marks, but that does not bother me one bit. Also, I'm happy with the way my belly button looks.

MY ADVICE IF YOU WANT THIS DONE:



1. BE VERY ACTIVE PRIOR TO THE SURGERY. I was doing an hour of

Recent IG work out video

Zumba, cardio, and some strength training almost everyday before my surgery. I really believe that helped with my recovery,

2. Take your medicine as recommended. Regardless, if you are in pain or not. I set my timer on my phone and every time it went off i took my medicine. So, I was never in any pain.

3. Rest and allow others to help you. I had a good friend help me bath. My husband was wonderful and so were my kids. My mom brought me water melon which i craved a lot and my sister blessed me with Wonton soup. 

4. Last but not least.... make sure you are financially ready.... This surgery is not cheap, bur it's definitely worth it. Just make sure you are ready to pay the cost without any hesitation.  The last thing you want to do is put a strain on your household.

IF you want to see my 5 day post op video here is the link: 5 DAY POST OP VLOG

I will update another video once the drain is removed and swelling goes down.

As of today here is my before vs after.....

DAY BEFORE SURGERY

My current situation:

Not eating too much. Just green tea, watermelon, soup, and a granola bar a day.

I'm taking the meds every 5 hours instead of 3. Still no pain. But... I'm staying high. And I'm keeping my trainer on all day, this is helping with the swelling. 

Good luck on your journey! Wherever it may take you! This might not be for everyone, but do what you want to do for you! You deserve it! Life is a journey not a destination! Where to next?

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I'M DEPRESSED? WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?

Can I be candid with you for one second? For the most person, I am a very happy person! I love my life, my family, and I have so much gratitude in my heart for every blessing in my life. I know I am a good person and I aim to help as many people as I can. My esteem is high and everything and even when everything in my life feels to be falling into place.... For some reason... I still get feelings of everything falling apart.
Prime example... Yesterday, I had such an amazing day! I accompanied kids in my nonprofit to the Lonestar Flight Museum in Houston, TX. For Veterans Day, the Legacy Flight Academy provided free starter flights for kids who have never flown before. What an amazing experience for these kids. When I woke up, I was so excited and threw on one of my new favorite t shirts which says, "Live your dreams. FLY NOW!"

At the event, "Eyes Above The Horizon, " the atmosphere was loving. I enjoyed seeing all the volunteers and support from our armed forces on Veterans Day.

  

However..... when I got home I caught a bad case of the blues. For real. It just hit me like a train. And it hit me hard. I was depressed because I was tired. I was depressed because I had poured so much of myself unto others. For the last few days, I had been eating bad. And when I eat bad that always makes me feel bad.
But.... the biggest reason why I was depressed because I felt disappointed.  How many times do we feel that we should be somewhere else or farther along than where we are. Especially when we see others doing bigger and better things than yourself. I had spent the day around beautiful professional people. Air Force women, pilots, and professionals who were giving all they had to inspire the next generation of kids.
I thought of my childhood and how I should have went right instead of turning left. I thought of my adulthood as to how many times I've not pursued my goals. My finances are not where they are suppose to be. I look at my body and I still have some insecurities even though I work out so much and appear confidence.
The thing is... we all get tired, give too much to others, compare ourselves to others, and are very hard on ourselves.

My last blog was about an episode of modern family where I was using a good example of how everything just works out in life at the end. MODERN FAMILY EPISODE REVIEW Whats so crazy is on the way to the event I was listening to the country song with the lyrics, "I'm not as good as I'm gonna get, but I'm better than I used to be, " by Tim McGraw.
So maybe I wasn't clinically depressed last night, but we all get down. Here is the remedy:

1. REST- you can't do anything if you're tired

2. DELEGATE- stop doing everything on your own! Ask for help and demand it.

3. SELF LOVE- take care of you! Exercise! Drink some water. Eat some green stuff
And last but not least.... make a plan for YOUR LIFE AND STICK TO IT! THIS IS YOUR JOURNEY! I LOVE THIS MEME: 

In case you're wondering... I woke up this morning well rested! Before I opened my eyes I sent out vibrations into the Universe about all the things that I am grateful for in my life!!! I thought really hard about my blues and I felt the strong urge to write and make adjustments in the future.
On your journey, if you're not learning and growing, then you're not going anywhere!

If you want to see my VLOG review of the Flight Museum: https://youtu.be/gOts_xWWkQQ 

Modern Family 10 YEARS LATER EPISODE

Last weeks episode (season 9, episode 6)  aired 11/1/17 had a deep deep message inside of it. By the end of the show, I wanted to stand on my feet and raise my hands in praise like I was in an old Southern Baptist Church. I literally had an "Ah-hah" moment (in the words of Oprah).

Modern Family is filled with multiple story lines, but I would like to focus on Phil and his magic! For this episode, Jay and Gloria's wedding anniversary party was approaching and Phil decided to do a magic trick at the celebration. During the episode, Phil discovered how his whole life could've changed, but Claire decided to make an executive decision about his career. Upon finding this out, Phil was devastated. 

Has anyone just made a decision for you and you believe that greatly affected your life? Phil was upset because he was not allowed to choose that particular path for himself. During the episode, Jay asked Phil, "Didn't your life turn out great?"

I'm sure Phil was thinking, "That's not the freaking point! My life would have went a completely different if I was allowed to choose for myself."

Furthermore,  I know Phil was upset because sometimes we imagine our life would have been better if...

what if I would've went this way or that way...
or if this or if that....

But the point with Phil's story.... At the end,  we all end up to where we are suppose to be! We don't have to agonize over missed opportunities. Sometimes things don't happen for us sooner because we really need to discover who we are!!! Over the years... Phil never stopped being who he was.....  We've followed Phil for many seasons grow his magic talent. I have to believe that everything happens for a reason at the perfect time! Keep your Phil spirit alive. One of fun, mystery, and laughter. Enjoy your journey. It's filled with great prizes along the way.

BIG DREAMS

How many of us have big dreams? There is soooo much I want to do with my life. I feel that's a blessing and a curse. On one hand I am excited of the things to come, on the other...... I feel like there's never enough hours in a day?

Half of my family are official passport holders! So... the door opening into the whole world has just been unlocked. Its so many amazing places to visit. I'm enjoying the research into all of the prospects. My travel goal is to visit one continent per year for the next five years. Earth is made up of 7, just in case you didn't know, I already live on one and Antarctica is a continent at the moment I have no desire to visit. 

Outside of travel, I have personal goals that I want to accomplish. One day..... I will be brave enough to jump out of plane and one day I will be strong enough to do a backflip. These are my personal goals.

HERE ARE THE 5 AREAS OF YOUR LIFE YOU SHOULD ESTABLISH BIG GOALS

1. PHYSICALLY- 

2. SPIRITUALLY-

3. PERSONALLY-

4. RELATIONSHIPS-

5.FINANCIALLY-

There's a famous script that says, "Faith without Works is dead!" Once you have prayed and really done some soul searching about your goals, it is fairly easy to write them down. Next, is the action plan. What is most helpful to me with achieving my goals is I get a high from crossing things off a list. So.. I make lists because for the thrill of being able to cross things off. Also, on really big goals I have accountability partners in my life. These are individuals I can trust with the ups and downs of my journey. Ultimately, they will encourage me to stay on track.

Lastly.... SLAY YOUR GOALS!!! FOR YOURSELF!!!! JUST DO IT.... FOR YOU!!!! If not, you will live a life of regret. IF only you would've...... Don't let that be you! I am ordering you in the meanest drill sergeant voice, "Get to work!!!! Follow your path!!! "